Outgrowing the Pain

Outgrowing the Pain

Author: Eliana Gil

Publisher: Dell

Published: 2009-07-22

Total Pages: 96

ISBN-13: 0307422453

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“Anyone who had a troubled childhood ought to read this book.”—Anne H. Cohn, D.P.H., Executive Director, National Committee for Prevention of Child Abuse Do you have trouble finding friends, lovers, acquaintances? Once you find them, do they dump on you, take advantage of you, or leave? Are you in a relationship you know isn't good for you? Are you still trying to figure out what you want to do when you grow up? Are you drinking too much, eating too much or trying to numb your pain with drugs of any kind? These are just a few of the problems abused children experience when they become adults. You may not realize you were abused. You may think your parents didn't mean it, didn't know better, or that others had it much worse. You may not even have made the connection between the past and your current problems. Outgrowing the Pain is an important book for any adult who was abused or neglected in childhood. It's an important book for professionals who help others. It's a book of questions that can pinpoint and illuminate destructive patterns. The answers you discover can lead to a life filled with new insight, hope, and love. “The best book available to help survivors cope and understand.”—Dan Sexton, Director, Childhelp's National Abuse Hotline “An invaluable aid for adult survivors of child abuse.”—Suzanne M. Sgroi, M.D., Executive Director, New England Clinical Associates


The Abused and the Broken

The Abused and the Broken

Author: Cole Cardenas

Publisher:

Published: 2021-03-29

Total Pages: 232

ISBN-13: 9781612449906

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The smallest things can change the entire course of our lives forever. For Daniel, all he'd ever known was pain and loneliness. Between abusive foster homes and constant bullying at school, he stayed in a constant state of fear, always starved for affection. For Luther, Daniel's lifelong bully, his life was filled with needless violence to fill a hole he couldn't explain. Luther's absent parents and cold upbringing left him trapped in his own façade as an emotionless shell. When unfortunate circumstances bring these two together, and Luther becomes protector rather than tormentor, neither boy will ever be the same. A toxic, dangerous, secret relationship blooms. Daniel is plunged into a life based on actually living, not just surviving. Luther must learn how to feel and process other emotions, rather than just rage. With threats around every corner, things are far from easy. Between worst fears, betrayals, fistfights, and a new monster altogether, Luther and Daniel go through hell and back. Will they both make it out alive, or will one forever be lost without the other?


Becoming a Church that Cares Well for the Abused

Becoming a Church that Cares Well for the Abused

Author: Brad Hambrick

Publisher: B&H Publishing Group

Published: 2019-06-04

Total Pages: 155

ISBN-13: 1535988150

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Is your church prepared to care for individuals who have experienced various forms of abuse? As we continue to learn of more individuals experiencing sexual abuse, domestic violence, and other forms of abuse, it’s clear that resources are needed to help ministries and leaders care for these individuals with love, support, and in cooperation with civil authorities. This handbook seeks to help the church take a significant step forward in its care for those who have been abused. Working in tandem with the Church Cares resources and videos, this handbook brings together leading evangelical trauma counselors, victim advocates, social workers, attorneys, batterer interventionists, and survivors to equip pastors and ministry leaders for the appropriate initial responses to a variety of abuse scenarios in churches, schools, or ministries. Though the most comprehensive training is experienced by using this handbook and the videos together, readers who may be unable to access the videos can use this handbook as a stand-alone resource.


Abused Boys

Abused Boys

Author: Mic Hunter

Publisher: Ballantine Books

Published: 1991-06-25

Total Pages: 354

ISBN-13: 0449906299

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A long overdue book by a psychologist who has extensive clinical experience treating male victims of child sexual abuse, it explodes the myth that sexual abuse of male children is rare, or that the consequences are less serious than for girls. Hunter examines the physical and emotional impact of abuse on its victims and the factors affecting revovery. With personal case histories of victims and their families, this is a powerfully written and meticulously researched book that is a landmark in the field of child sexual abuse literature.


The Abused

The Abused

Author: Matthew Douglas

Publisher: Writers Republic LLC

Published: 2020-10-23

Total Pages: 290

ISBN-13: 1646205936

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Matthew Davies is a man who has everything-the perfect girl, the perfect job, the perfect life. Everything is falling into place for this young man until he gets forced into a compromising situation. As a social worker, he has been rewarded many times over in helping young children get placed into loving families. But he has also seen firsthand how the system can fail for children too. Now he is being tempted to join a secret organization that is being set up in California. An organization that is taking matters into their own hands. Backed by extremely powerful people, this organization is no longer going to watch as young men, women and animals get abused. They are taking action against these abusers in the most barbaric ways to make sure that they no longer abuse anyone again.


Abused Men

Abused Men

Author: Philip W. Cook

Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing USA

Published: 2009-02-24

Total Pages: 249

ISBN-13: 031335619X

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An award-winning investigative journalist provides a disturbing new look at an underreported type of domestic violence—the abuse of men. The first edition of Philip W. Cook's book, Abused Men: The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence (Praeger, 1997), drew attention and praise nationwide from individuals and from media, ranging from CNN and Fox network's The O'Reilly Factor to scholarly publications such as The Journal of Marriage and Family. On the 10th anniversary of that groundbreaking book, Cook began revising and expanding his work. The result is this second edition—a disturbing look at a trend that continues to increase. The new edition of Abused Men: The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence offers up-to-date data on the prevalence of intimate partner violence against men, incorporating personal interviews and cases drawn from the media. It also includes updates on law, legislation, court activity, social responses, police activity, support groups, batterer programs, and crisis intervention programs. The final chapter contains a detailed and specific description of needed reforms in the current approach to intimate partner violence, whether the victims are male or female.


The Abused Woman and Her Pain

The Abused Woman and Her Pain

Author: Hanna Banting, Dr

Publisher: Strategic Book Publishing

Published: 2012-04-01

Total Pages: 227

ISBN-13: 1622120515

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When a woman is abused, her pain is often silent, and sometimes misunderstood. Author and mental health counselor Dr. Hanna Banting sheds an insightful and informed light on the subject in The Abused Woman and Her Pain. Written to be used by victims of abuse, along with the supportive people in their lives, this is a book that will empower women to seek help, end the mistreatment, and begin the journey down the path to a new and happy future. Whether you are touched personally by the phenomena of abuse, or want to help someone you know who is in crisis, The Abused Woman and Her Pain is an invaluable and practical work of wisdom and sensitivity.


Counselling the Abused Christian Woman

Counselling the Abused Christian Woman

Author: Laraine Birnie

Publisher: iUniverse

Published: 2023-01-31

Total Pages: 128

ISBN-13: 1663249997

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This book sets out a simple guide for counsellors to help an abused woman move from being a victim to taking control of her life and relationships. First the woman is helped to understand if her positive personality traits such as hopefulness and deep empathy have resulted in her missing potential warning signs in an abusive relationship. We then move on to determine whether the person abusing the woman has features of a personality disorder. Such individuals are often abusive because of their unhealthy beliefs and attitudes towards others. If this is the case then the woman needs to let go of the hope that she can change her abuser as well as the guilt she may be carrying for the relationship not working. Other unhealthy past relationships are explored and these include her parents or other family members which may have predisposed her to tolerate abusive behaviour. The next stage includes educating the woman about practical strategies of assertiveness to deal with the abusers in her life. Throughout the sessions we provide her with the compassion of a listening ear, and validation for her courage. We help her understand that even though she has not received the love she had hoped for, she is still a beloved worthwhile child of God. She is then able to make a decision as to whether to stay in the abusive relationship or leave. In either case the goal is for her to take control of her life, deal assertively with the unhealthy people who are abusing her and learn how to choose healthy friends and become a healthy person herself.


Healing the Abused Autistic Brain

Healing the Abused Autistic Brain

Author: Kim "Supermutt" Goodman

Publisher: Lulu.com

Published: 2020-03-07

Total Pages: 160

ISBN-13: 1678152250

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Helping abuse survivors on the autism spectrum start their journey in healing so they can experience personal growth.