How to Listen, Hear, and Validate

How to Listen, Hear, and Validate

Author: Patrick King

Publisher: PKCS Media

Published: 2021-02-16

Total Pages: 132

ISBN-13:

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Cultivate deep connections wherever you go. Prevent 100% of conflict, misunderstanding, and loneliness. Healthy relationships involve our feelings being heard, understood, and validated. Unfortunately, this is the exception rather than the rule. Are you doing it wrong, and alienating people versus comforting them? Find out how to walk this fine line. Uncover the biggest obstacle to the intimate, healthy relationships that we desire and deserve. How to Listen, Hear, and Validate is all about our top communication struggle - our tendency to react instead of respond, and forget that our goal is to build bridges rather than walls. You’ll learn what you’ve been doing wrong, and why your efforts at getting closer to people - in deep or light manners - have failed. You’ll learn actionable techniques and frameworks to have the most productive conversations of your life - ones that will walk away with people praising how empathetic you are. Most importantly, you will gain profound insights on how to reprogram yourself into a natural communicator. No more unresolved issues, struggles to get close, or failures from ineffective communication. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. His struggles in his early relationships has inspired him to unravel practical ways to cultivate meaningful, reciprocative interactions. Establish vulnerable, fulfilling and satisfying relationships. •The big mistakes when we ‘listen’ to others •How to structure a style for effective validation and empathy •Scripts to validate others, to know exactly what to say •Simple tactics to make others feel loved and seen •How to use empathetic communication and active listening techniques Did you know? Most communication problems come from a lack of validation. Are we truly paying attention to the messages others are conveying, or are we just waiting for our turn to speak? Are we listening to reply, or listening to hear? After applying the proven techniques from this book, you’ll be able to increase love, respect and satisfaction to your relationship. You’ll become the person everyone wants in their life. Connect deeper and better. Raise the standard for your relationships.


How to Read a Person Like a Book

How to Read a Person Like a Book

Author: Gerard I. Nierenberg

Publisher: Barnes & Noble Publishing

Published: 1994

Total Pages: 200

ISBN-13: 9781566194013

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This unique program teaches listeners how to "decode" and reply to non-verbal signals from friends and business associates when those signals are often vague and thus frequenly ignored


Control Your Emotions

Control Your Emotions

Author: Patrick King

Publisher: Pkcs Media, Incorporated

Published: 2019-10-21

Total Pages: 244

ISBN-13: 9781647430542

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Emotion is not the enemy. We just need to decipher them and learn tools for regulation and resilience. We all get knocked down and face hardships, but we always have the choice to get back up or not. What will your choice be? Learn to train your emotions and tame your reactive brain. Control Your Emotions is the rare book that understands where you've been, the obstacles you've overcome, and what you need to make sure you are in full control of your life at all times. This is a stunningly detailed and insightful guide into our emotions, our triggers, and why we act against our own interests so frequently. The key to our emotions is NOT to just "think calm and meditate" or "be mindful and grateful." This book avoids unhelpful platitudes and gives you real advice, borrowing from all fields, such as psychology, counseling, behavior science, evolutionary biology, and even Buddhism and Stoicism. This book gives you the tools for emotional success and the daily happiness and calm you seek. Don't let your emotions dictate your decisions and life. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. He has sold over a million books. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. Discover your inner strength and calm. -Understand the biological and psychological purposes of emotions. -Find what triggers your deepest and strongest emotions. -Learn how to properly express yourself for greater understanding. -Tools to recognize and regulate in the heat of the moment. -The power of gratitude, savoring, and journaling. -How to activate your "emotional immune system." This book is the blueprint for what to do when you inevitably get knocked down. The path to what we want is never easy; controlling your emotions gets you from Point A to Point B.


Connect Instantly

Connect Instantly

Author: Patrick King

Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform

Published: 2017-04-19

Total Pages: 166

ISBN-13: 9781545475683

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"'Connect Instantly' is about breaking though the ice with anyone and setting the stage for friendships and relationships where there doesn't appear to be anything in common. The first 60 seconds makes or breaks you and is the inspection you must always pass. You'll learn what people are really judging and evaluating you on when you first meet them, and what makes them feel comfortable in the way they do with old friends. Create a bulletproof first impression and make the friends you want."--Page 4 of cover.


The Northern Clemency

The Northern Clemency

Author: Philip Hensher

Publisher: Anchor

Published: 2008-10-22

Total Pages: 610

ISBN-13: 0307271404

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In 1974, the Sellers family is transplanted from London to Sheffield in northern England. On the day they move in, the Glover household across the street is in upheaval: convinced that his wife is having an affair, Malcolm Glover has suddenly disappeared. The reverberations of this rupture will echo through the years to come as the connection between the families deepens. But it will be the particular crises of ten-year-old Tim Glover—set off by two seemingly inconsequential but ultimately indelible acts of cruelty—that will erupt, full-blown, two decades later in a shocking conclusion. Expansive and deeply felt, The Northern Clemency shows Philip Hensher to be one of our most masterly chroniclers of modern life, and a storyteller of virtuosic gifts.


Untitled Rothfuss 3 Of 3

Untitled Rothfuss 3 Of 3

Author: Patrick Rothfuss

Publisher: Gollancz

Published: 2012-04-01

Total Pages: 896

ISBN-13: 9780575081451

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The third in 'The Kingkiller Chronicle' series of fantasy novels by Patrick Rothfuss.


Uncommon Genius

Uncommon Genius

Author: Denise Shekerjian

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 1991-02-01

Total Pages: 273

ISBN-13: 0140109862

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Drawing on interviews with 40 winners of the MacArthur Foundation Fellowship—the so-called "genius awards"—the insightful study throws fresh light on the creative process.


The Way of Kings

The Way of Kings

Author: Brandon Sanderson

Publisher: Macmillan

Published: 2014-03-04

Total Pages: 1013

ISBN-13: 0765376679

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A new epic fantasy series from the New York Times bestselling author chosen to complete Robert Jordan's The Wheel of Time® Series


Class

Class

Author: Paul Fussell

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 1992

Total Pages: 212

ISBN-13: 0671792253

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This book describes the living-room artifacts, clothing styles, and intellectual proclivities of American classes from top to bottom.