Sidechicks: Married to the Visionary is a book for every woman. This book will challenge you to re-think how you view your purpose as a woman, and as a result, better prepare you for your role in marriage. Starting from the story of creation in Genesis, this book walks you through God's original intent for woman. Not only did God create man and woman equal, but He released the blessing over them both to multiply and have dominion. As you read this book, you will discover this and other truths about the characteristics of a woman married to a great visionary. May you be equipped to be a Sidechick, ordained to carry the vision.
This will always be a trending topic. I have my own personal views on this subject that I plan on sharing in full detail. Because many women have experienced the effects of the other women destroying their lives and marriages they may not take an objective view. I completely understand and will whole heartedly be sympathetic and take their feelings into consideration. There is obviously at least 3 sides to the story of a love triangle and I intend to give all of their perspectives a thorough evaluation. This will get complex but I will break it down into small portions so that everyone can digest it from their own individual levels of comprehension. So let’s take a journey into the realm of the realities of getting caught up in a love TKO. It is my opinion that serious committed unions are a product of the individuals involved. Meaning that you can only get out of a relationship what you put into it. It is a work in progress. Some members wake up late, never show up on time, and don’t put any work into it at all. While others clock in early, be productive, and show pride in their accomplishments. It is a team concept. The goal is to build a solid team that can overcome all of the obstacles put before them. It is never easy and full of all of the challenges that life has to offer. There is beauty in taking on these encounters as a fully functional unit and working as a couple to take on the world while becoming a championship caliber contender. This just doesn’t happen overnight. It takes years of getting to know each other intimately and intensely. Here is where things get even more complicated. When another man or woman gets added to the equation. For the purpose of this conversation we are going to discuss the other women which is commonly referred to as a side dish. She is an unwanted distraction to the female participant in this scenario because it was never her intension to share him with another member of the female persuasion or be replaced by her for that matter. Her introduction was unwanted and unnecessary. She can only cause a separation or destruction of the entire structure that you worked diligently in building with him. The competitive nature is alive and transforming the entire concept of what was once a loving commitment into an Olympic event with several opposing forces. Some women concede and move on to the next admirer while others lock horns and duel for his affections. However things play themselves out it will never be as it was before the act of betrayal. Women are getting more and more frustrated with the lying and cheating ways of their male counterparts. They may realistically feel as if they are fighting a losing battle. This is something that I often overhear in passing. Apparently side chicks are winning the war.
A young fashion designer discovers a world of ambition, rivalry, and romance in this debut novel by the star of Bravo’s Real Housewives of Atlanta. Fresh out of college, Sasha Wellington’s got her career as a fashion designer and entrepreneur all planned out. When fate points her to Atlanta, she sets out to make her dreams come true . . . Before she knows it, Sasha’s befriended by two rival BFFs. First there’s Norman, savvy stylist to Atlanta’s stars, from the A-list on down. Then there’s Paris, an outrageous personality with a questionable nightlife. Between their antics, Sasha’s beyond grateful for her coworker, Casey. Married to an NBA player, Casey’s got class. But there’s more than meets the eye to being a baller’s wife. The more time Sasha spends among these new friends, the more she discovers the behind-the-scenes truth about Atlanta’s movers and shakers. Still, she’s not worried about getting caught up in the drama—until she’s romanced by a baller of her own . . .
"WIVES ARE FOR RAINY DAYS; SIDE CHICKS ARE FOR BEST DAYS" is a captivating tale that explores the intricate dynamics of a marriage tested by ego, betrayal, and unforeseen challenges. Set against the backdrop of Nigeria, this poignant story delves into the depths of human emotions, resilience, and the transformative power of love. Ekene and Uche, once deeply in love, find themselves grappling with their own demons and the cracks that have formed in their relationship. Uche, consumed by ego and narcissistic behaviors, unintentionally inflicts emotional wounds upon Ekene, pushing her away and leaving her feeling isolated and hurt. This book takes readers on an emotional rollercoaster as Ekene and Uche navigate the complexities of their circumstances.With vivid storytelling, rich character development, and a narrative that explores universal themes of forgiveness, redemption, and the complexities of human relationships, it is a captivating novel that will resonate with readers who appreciate heartfelt stories of love, growth, and the triumph of the human spirit.
Side Chicks can be detrimental to your happiness & relationship between you and your man. They steal the affection, finance, and attention that is yours and leave your love life in turmoil. You may even be a Side Chick through deceit. In this book, I share advice and action plans derived from many hours of real life interviews with women and men that have been affected by these women of prey. Through experiential expertise, hundreds of hours of interviews with both men and women, and much study and prayer, I'll show you why and how Side Chicks are winning and how to beat them back I'm on a mission to expose Side Chicks and empower you to keep, maintain, and strengthen the bond between you and the man you love.
Side Chicks don't know their place...but one wife is here to remind them of where they belong.Remember when side chicks were undercover and ashamed of the men they slept with? Those days are long gone. Side bitches are bold in their quest to steal husbands and boyfriends without any remorse. But their reign is about to end!Nova is the loving wife of Tyriq. No matter how well he treats her, he can't help his wandering eye. When his mistress threatens to unravel their perfect life. Nova takes matters into her own hand.Aoki is the self professed queen of the side chicks. Without any guilt she uses married men for money, but it comes at a steep price. Eventually she learns that what she is doing is wrong but will it be too late?Skye is the sister of Nova and the best friend of Aoki. She is trying to follow the example of her sister by being a doting wife. But Aoki's influence is surely tempting. Follow the lives of these young women as they navigate through betrayal, sex, relationships and purely crazy drama!
In The Affirmative Discomforts of Black Female Authorship, the author examines how three popular black female authors (Roxane Gay, Beyoncé and Issa Rae) simultaneously complement and complicate hegemonic notions of race, identity and gender in contemporary American culture.
-Two things I've never seen, a female who look better than me and a nigga I couldn't have!- Meet Chanel, the chocolate bombshell whose captivating smile often over-shines the devious ways she works to keep bottled inside. Loving hard is all she knows, especially when it comes to Tatum Carter. Tatum Carter is the definition of perfection in Chanel's eyes; except for one flaw, his girlfriend Bianca. Not one to care about another woman's feelings, Chanel does whatever she feels is necessary to push Bianca out of the picture. But of course, a man does what a man does and slowly Chanel begins to realize she may not have Tatum on lock like she thought. Between the secrets exposed and the lies becoming unraveled, Chanel pulls you into the Sidechick underworld. She reveals what goes on behind the scenes in -perfect relationships, - and what really goes on between your man and his beloved Side Chick
Multidisciplinary in scope and using predominantly qualitative approaches, Conjugal Trajectories: Relationship Beginnings, Change, and Dissolutions focuses upon relevant trajectories to better comprehend the evolving nature of conjugal relationships and its implications for family life moving forward.
Essays on hip-hop feminism featuring relevant, real conversations about how race and gender politics intersect with pop culture and current events. For the Crunk Feminist Collective, their academic day jobs were lacking in conversations they actually wanted. To address this void, they started a blog that turned into a widespread movement. The Collective’s writings foster dialogue about activist methods, intersectionality, and sisterhood. And the writers’ personal identities—as black women; as sisters, daughters, and lovers; and as television watchers, sports fans, and music lovers—are never far from the discussion at hand. These essays explore “Sex and Power in the Black Church,” discuss how “Clair Huxtable is Dead,” list “Five Ways Talib Kweli Can Become a Better Ally to Women in Hip Hop,” and dwell on “Dating with a Doctorate (She Got a Big Ego?).” Self-described as “critical homegirls,” the authors tackle life stuck between loving hip hop and ratchet culture while hating patriarchy, misogyny, and sexism. “Refreshing and timely.” —Bitch Magazine “Our favorite sister bloggers.” —Elle “By centering a Black Feminist lens, The Collection provides readers with a more nuanced perspective on everything from gender to race to sexuality to class to movement-building, packaged neatly in easy-to-read pieces that take on weighty and thorny ideas willingly and enthusiastically in pursuit of a more just world.” —Autostraddle “Much like a good mix-tape, the book has an intro, outro, and different layers of based sound in the activist, scholar, feminist, women of color, media representation, sisterhood, trans, queer and questioning landscape.” —Lambda Literary Review
