Not a self-help book, Self-Traps is a fascinating, multidimensional exploration of how self-esteem conflicts develop and are played out in all our relationships, and how the authentic achievement of self-esteem is often undermined by American social norms that tell us how to approach our love relationships and work. Swann shows how these societal influences may compound the inner conflicts that people with low self-esteem have, making their thought patterns and behavior that much more difficult to change. Yet raising self-esteem, he insists, is an achievable goal. Swann proposes solutions that take into account the multifaceted nature of self-esteem and allow us to perform a delicate balancing act, changing our notions of who we are without irreparably losing our fundamental sense of identity.
"21 Mind Traps" Is an Insightful Exploration is a transformative e-book that delves into the psychological patterns of cognition that distort our thinking and influence daily life. In this book, through engaging storytelling, relatable examples, and practical pieces of advice, this book unravels how cognitive distortions, such as people-pleasing, overgeneralization, and Mind-reading, entrap individuals in limiting beliefs. These Mind traps lead to distorted thinking, causing unnecessary stress and limiting one's potential for growth and fulfillment. With a focus on self-awareness and mental empowerment, this book offers readers powerful techniques to recognize, challenge, and break free from these traps, fostering personal growth and a healthier mindset. This is the perfect book of mind for anyone wanna seeking clarity and mastery over their mental habits.
From Donna G. Corwin, the bestselling co-author of Time Out for Toddlers, Parent Traps is an insightful book that helps parents explore experiences from their own childhoods to help them better understand their own parenting styles. With helpful solutions and psychological tools, Parent Traps can help you navigate the dilemmas that all parents face.
Author and consultant Jennifer Garvey Berger has worked with all types of leaders—from top executives at Google to nonprofit directors who are trying to make a dent in social change. She hears a version of the same plea from every client in nearly every sector around the world: "I know that complexity and uncertainty are testing my instincts, but I don't know which to trust. Is there some way to know what to do when I can't know what's next?" Her newest work is an answer to this plea. Using her background in adult development, complexity theories, and leadership consultancy, Garvey Berger discerns five pernicious and pervasive "mind traps" to frame the book. These are: the desire for simple stories, our sense that we are right, our desire to get along with others in our group, our fixation with control, and our constant quest to protect and defend our egos. In addition to understanding why these natural impulses steer us wrong in a fast-moving world, leaders will get powerful questions and approaches that help them escape these patterns.
Two well-respected management experts deliver an authoritative manual that provides valuable insights for turning conflicts in the workplace into productive working relationships. The toughest part of any job is dealing with the people around you. Scratch the surface of any company and uncover a hotbed of emotions—people feeling anxious about performance, angry at co-workers, and misunderstood by management. Now, in WORKING WITH YOU IS KILLING ME, readers learn how to “unhook” from these emotional pitfalls and gain valuable strategies for confronting workplace conflicts in a healthy, productive way. They’ll discover how to: Manage an ill-tempered boss before he or she explodes Defend themselves against idea-pilfering rivals before they steal all the credit Detach from those annoying co-workers whose irritating habits ruin the day And much, much more.
“This debut novel about an Irish expat millennial teaching English and finding romance in Hong Kong is half Sally Rooney love triangle, half glitzy Crazy Rich Asians high living—and guaranteed to please.” —Vogue A RECOMMENDED BOOK FROM: The New York Times Book Review * Vogue * TIME * Marie Claire * Elle * O, the Oprah Magazine * The Washington Post * Esquire * Harper's Bazaar * Bustle * PopSugar * Refinery 29 * LitHub * Debutiful An intimate, bracingly intelligent debut novel about a millennial Irish expat who becomes entangled in a love triangle with a male banker and a female lawyer Ava, newly arrived in Hong Kong from Dublin, spends her days teaching English to rich children. Julian is a banker. A banker who likes to spend money on Ava, to have sex and discuss fluctuating currencies with her. But when she asks whether he loves her, he cannot say more than "I like you a great deal." Enter Edith. A Hong Kong–born lawyer, striking and ambitious, Edith takes Ava to the theater and leaves her tulips in the hallway. Ava wants to be her—and wants her. And then Julian writes to tell Ava he is coming back to Hong Kong... Should Ava return to the easy compatibility of her life with Julian or take a leap into the unknown with Edith? Politically alert, heartbreakingly raw, and dryly funny, Exciting Times is thrillingly attuned to the great freedoms and greater uncertainties of modern love. In stylish, uncluttered prose, Naoise Dolan dissects the personal and financial transactions that make up a life—and announces herself as a singular new voice.
Escape from Mind Traps. The bestselling author of "I Want to Change But I Don't Know How" and "Instead of Therapy" offers a step-by-step approach to self-initiated, self-directed personal change. This book "maps out" ways for readers to look at themselves objectively and identify the defeating attitudes that are keeping them locked into problem habits, relationships, and situations.
In the midseventies, Sarnel had a brush with death and vowed whatever put him on that stretcher, he would whip-and omen in disguise! In one year, he lost all his weight, quit smoking, and became a social drinker. After that experience, Sarnel decided to write a book on health and happiness. The only clue he had was the cryptic phrase: "I know it is wrong for me, but I am doing it anyway." After speaking to over thirty thousand customers about their eating, drinking, and smoking problems, Sarnel put together an informative, inspirational, and educational book you won't put down. It is more of a testament or road map to better health and physical fitness. Sarnel uncovers the tobacco, alcohol, and "junk food" conspiracies to get millions of people addicted to tobacco, alcohol, and junk foods. The reader will realize he/she has been victimized by the alcohol, tobacco, and junk food companies with propaganda and conspiracies. He sheds light about the superstitions of the dark age thinking to modern-age thinking. Sarnel goes into modern-day fallacies/myths regarding food, tobacco, and alcohol. He writes about symbolic traditions and the pros and cons regarding Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's. The reader will find the folklore traps: birthdays, anniversaries, Mother's/Father's Day, Valentine's Day could be as heartrending and disenchanting traps people can fall into. Sarnel saved the deadliest trap for last: the media fallacy trap. People trappers always need some kind of bait to entice, lure, or tempt their prey/victims into their traps. Their bait could be greed, gluttony, or lust, to name a few; they are the go-between for the alcohol, tobacco, and junk food companies: the dictators. After the reader reads this, he/she could feel like the patsy to the alcohol, tobacco, and junk food companies. The best is yet to come. You beating the dictators! Sarnel unveils the cheap excuses, which are nothing more than cheap alibis, people use regarding their habits. The reader will realize excuses/alibis lead to rationalities, justification, and denial. (When the reader realizes his/her failures and mistakes, then they are ready to declare war on their eating, drinking, and smoking habits.) Sarnel will excite the reader's imagination seeing themselves being their normal weight, smoke free, and a social drinker. Sarnel shares having a campaign against the reader's self-destructive excuses that they will use regarding the eating, drinking, or smoking problems. He guides the reader through their self-destructive smoking, eating, and drinking problems. He educates the reader with warning signs/symptoms of eating, smoking, and drinking, and with laws and their campaign to destroy their self-destructive habits. Sarnel goes into shattering the conspiracy and breaking the comfort Zones," Sarnel gives a step-by-step in winning the war on your eating, drinking, and smoking problems. He also shares cooking techniques to better health and fitness. He goes into eating traps and the "All American plague." He ends with the reason why people use that deadly phase, "I know it is wrong for me, but I am doing it anyway." (If you want to know more about Sarnel, go to knowyourdestiny.info.
“Practical and sized just right, for places where Google can’t always be summoned. Includes a guide to what’s edible for foragers and key illustrations, in addition to recipes.” —The Washington Post What to eat, where to find it, and how to cook it! Renowned outdoors expert and New York Times bestselling author Dave Canterbury provides you with all you need to know about packing, trapping, and preparing food for your treks and wilderness travels. Whether you're headed out for a day hike or a weeklong expedition, you'll find everything you need to survive--and eat well--out in the wild. Canterbury makes certain you're set by not only teaching you how to hunt and gather, but also giving you recipes to make while on the trail. Complete with illustrations to accompany his instructions and a full-color photo guide of plants to forage and those to avoid, this is the go-to reference to keep in your pack. The Bushcraft Field Guide to Trapping, Gathering, and Cooking in the Wild helps you achieve the full outdoor experience. With it, you'll be prepared to set off on your trip and enjoy living off the land.
