***Buy the Paperback version of this Book and get the Kindle Book for free*** If you are an adult child of a narcissistic father, this book is for you, and if you are not sure whether your abusive father is a pathological narcissist, you will find out. If you read this book: You will become aware of all the reasons why your childhood was so traumatic, sometimes without you realizing it. You will learn how to deal with your narcissistic father without being his victim any longer. You will find out all the dysfunctional thoughts and behaviors that You have developed over the years. You will start healing from the symptoms of Complex Traumatic Stress Disorder, a typical disorder affecting adult children of narcissistic parents, even if psychotherapy is required. Adult children of narcissistic parents are often plagued with so much guilt and sense of deep obligation and shame that they feel duty-bound to keep whatever happens a family secret even when it is shredding their lives. The solution is not forgiving or forgetting, but first of all understanding and working on your self-development, and finally taking back control of your life. You cannot fix a lifetime of destructive abuse by reading a book, but you can find the right way to recover and make the first step on your healing journey. So let's start clicking the "Buy with 1-Click" Button NOW!
Narcissistic Father Test Included Have you ever felt the pain of humiliation from your father? Are you wondering why your father made your childhood so miserable? Do you sometimes rack your brain on why your father seems so different? If Yes, read on. It is sad to see many children carry the pain of parental abuse until the adult stage. In the family with a perverse Narcissistic Father, there is only one very bright star: Him. "Dark" sun of the family, the partner, and the children exist only as satellite planets that orbit around it, reflecting their light. The perverse narcissist father always changes personality and behavior outside his home. He can transform himself into the opposite of what appears at home. "In front of the world, the relationship with my father is perfect, but behind closed doors, everything changes." This only increases the family drama of these children, forced not only to bear daily harassment but even unable to find understanding and comfort in the people they have close to them. Children are challenged continuously through constant comparison. Generally, he elects a "Golden Child" and a "Scapegoat Child." The first is the idealized extension of the father, or "The Chosen One," the one who is destined for great awards and honors, as desired by the Narcissistic Father for himself. The scapegoat child's function is to be the container for the garbage that the narcissistic parent cannot accept to keep. Whether they are Golden Children or Scapegoats, they are sadly alone because children of a narcissistic family cannot ally with the healthy parent, as in these family rules: "If one parent is a perverse narcissist, the other is dominated by it." This psychological damage grows into a disorder known as C-PTSD (Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder). DOWNLOAD Narcissistic Fathers, a practical guide for daughter and son to recognize a narcissistic parent abuse and how to heal and recover from CPTSD. The book is centered on children that have lived through parental abuse. It will help adult children discover the truth about their childhood, the kind of parents they lived with. The book is divided in THREE PARTS: PART 1: NARCISSISM PART 2: NARCISSISTIC FATHERS PART 3: RECOVERING FROM A NARCISSISTIC FATHER Book content: What is Pathological Narcissism Manipulations used by Narcissistic Fathers Signs that a Narcissistic Father raised you Golden Child and a Scapegoat Child How Male Children can survive this abuse How Son can withstand this abuse The Narcissistic Enabler - Wife of the Narcissistic Man How to overcome C-PTSD The Author, Rose Mary Parker, growing up, she struggled with emotionally immature parents and felt as though she was constantly walking on eggshells. Knowing the dynamics of her friend's family, she realized her home life was far from ordinary. Now, she is a happy mother of two daughters, who are both independent and strong, and life coach. She has devoted her life to helping others suffering from toxic relationships. "I can't guarantee you that you will definitely recover from the deep wounds inflicted by your Narcissistic Father. I need your cooperation. Still, I can promise that this will be an essential step in your journey for healing and happiness". Rose Mary Parker
If you feel something was very wrong with your childhood, yet you are unable to point to any of the horrific abuse often talked about in the media, this book is for you. It is for adults who don't know why they struggle with the things in life that come naturally to others, who find socialising draining because they are easily affected by the moods and the words of others and cannot understand why sadness and dissatisfaction prevail in their lives, while others thrive with seemingly a lot less.If you struggle with such issues you might be an adult child of a cover narcissistic parent. Covert narcissistic parents break down their children's self-esteem and sense of self in order to manipulate them into serving their unhealthy needs and demands. The abuse is subtle and over time, it erodes the victim's personality, distorts their sense of reality and it does severe damage to their ability to function.And if you wonder why anyone would do that, the answer is simple; narcissists are not mentally healthy people and their goal is not to raise mentally healthy offspring.Most parents do not destroy their children. The narcissism is classified as a personality disorder for a reason, and it has to do with the predatory and inadequate way of sustaining their ego. It is classified as a cluster B personality disorder with a specific set of dynamics and outcomes. This book is not about the academic description, your parents might've had full blown narcissism or had strong tendencies, ether way their unhealthy behaviour affected you and you need to understand what happened in order to heal. Other signs of such abuse are chronic anxiety, getting overwhelmed, concentration problems, substance abuse, irritability, flashbacks of humiliating moments from the past, inability to cope with failure and negative emotions, inability to enjoy the simple things others enjoy.This indicates something is majorly and fundamentally wrong with your mental state, and it is the result of the prolonged abuse you've been through. Worst of all, the abuse is not easily visible or widely acknowledged. Understanding the problem will help you start recovering. And, of course, this book is for those who already know about narcissism and narcissistic abuse. More specifically it's about covert narcissistic mothers, and how they inflict lasting damage on their children.
This book will help you understand and deal with the abuse from narcissistic personality disorder especially the one of the fathers. "The book provides great tips to make life work with a self-absorbed father." -Do you want to understand why you feel the way you do and why life can feel so hard? -Would you like to get proven strategies for coping with a narcissistic father? -Do you need clarity on whether you should break ties with him? In this book, we'll address the complexities of narcissism. What does it mean to be a narcissist, and what are the negative effects on children with narcissistic parents? You'll also find out what separates narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) from having narcissistic traits. You will learn: -How destructive narcissism can be to the emotional and psychological well-being of the victim. -How to recognize the destructive nature in your father-How to fortify your support system -How to accumulate courage and strength to face your narcissistic father without falling prey to the manipulations and abuses. If you wonder why you have lingering feelings of anger, hatred, and resentment toward your narcissistic father, it means you were not able to process the traumatic experiences and you carry the burden wherever you go. You are a prisoner of your feelings and emotions. You don't have to feel trapped in a narcissistic bubble because you can recover from emotional trauma. What's more, the deep wounds inflicted by your father can be healed. You can benefit from knowing that you are not alone, and you are not powerless. You have the capacity to deal with your inner demons and the external forces that are impeding your growth. As an adult child of a narcissistic father, you will have the opportunity to begin to understand why you turned out the way you did so far and why you're struggling to make it through life. You will have come a great tremendous way when you eliminate self-blame and detach yourself from your father's toxic behavior and faulty parenting.The book offers realistic techniques and strategies to help you hurdle the seemingly insurmountable obstacle that is preventing you from moving forward and reclaiming your life.
If you are an adult child of a narcissistic father, this book is for you, and if you are not sure whether your abusive father is a pathological narcissist, you will find out. If you read this book: You will become aware of all the reasons why your childhood was so traumatic. You will learn how to deal with your narcissistic father without being his victim any longer. You will find out all dysfunctional beliefs and habits that you developed during your childhood. You will learn how to contrast Complex Traumatic Stress Disorder symptoms. The solution is not forgiving or forgetting, but understanding and working on your self-development, and finally taking back control of your life. Even if you were born in the wrong place, growing up dealing with an abusive father, you can leave the past behind and build a better future. This book is a painful path of awareness, but it is also the first step of a journey toward a better life. So, let's start clicking the "Buy with 1-Click" Button NOW!
Those who have had a narcissistic parent can testify to how damaging it can be to one's psyche. Narcissistic parents lack empathy, show a severe sense of entitlement to micromanage the lives of their children and often subject their children to neglect, as well as emotional, psychological and physical abuse. From the unique challenges daughters of narcissistic fathers face to the ways in which adverse childhood experiences affect our brains, Shahida Arabi's insightful essays resonate deeply with those who have been raised by narcissistic parents. In this new essay collection, Arabi explores how narcissistic abuse in childhood can set us up for trauma repetition in adulthood, affecting how we navigate relationships, the self, and the world. She pinpoints the toxic traits and behaviors of narcissistic mothers and fathers, exposing how covert abuse insidiously plays out in these specific dynamics. She offers the essential tools, skill sets and healing modalities for survivors who have undergone a lifetime's worth of abuse, helping them to break the cycle once and for all for future generations.
This memoir will take you on a remarkable and sometimes dark journey through a young woman’s two (very different) domestically abusive relationships. With her experience laid out in diary form, spanning November 2013 to early June 2016, the author reveals the subtle and not so subtle “red flag behaviours” of Casanova Psychopaths, Malignant Co-Dependents and the common Narcissist. The reader will also learn about the Narcissistic Virus and discover how sometimes victims can be so broken by NPD Abuse that sometimes the only way to survive is to burn all your bridges and walk into the fire with the Devil himself. The author did not escape unscathed. She suffered the Narcissistic Virus, gained criminal convictions and still displays many C-PTSD symptoms. This is an honest and impactful insight into her journey. This book is designed to be mainly educational so will suits not only victims and survivors but also professionals interested in making judicial, social care and health systems better. L.W. Hawksby is a “Ninja Donor”. She ensures that a percentage of the profits from the sale of her books is donated to human and animal focussed charities, each year on Halloween, which is the favourite time of year for Rufus, her youngest son, who has Asperger’s Syndrome.
Relinquishing family attachments that failed to meet childhood needs is the most difficult task individuals can undertake as they grow into adulthood. Leaving Home not only emphasizes the life-saving benefits of separating from toxic parents but also offers a viable program for personal emancipation. David P. Celani centers his program on Object Relations Theory, a branch of psychoanalysis developed by Scottish analyst Ronald Fairbairn. The human personality, Fairbairn argued, is not the result of inherited (and thus immutable) instincts. Rather, the developing child builds internal relational templates rooted in conscious and unconscious memories he internalized in childhood, and these guide his future interactions with others. While an attachment to neglectful or even abusive parents is not uncommon, there is a way out. Eloquent, relatable, and filled with rich examples taken from more than two decades of clinical practice, Leaving Home outlines the practical steps necessary to become a healthy adult.
In this important book, Dr. Laura Schlessinger shows men and women that they can have a Good Life no matter how Bad their Childhood. For each of us, there is a connection between our early family dynamics and experiences and our current attitudes and decisions. Many of the people Dr. Laura has helped did not realize how their histories impacted their adult lives, or how their choices in people, repetitive situations, and decisions -- even their emotional reactions -- were connected to those early negative experiences, playing a major role in their current unhappiness. For these people and millions like them, too much time is dedicated to repeating the ugly dynamics of childhood in a vain attempt to repair or cope with deep hurt and longings. Too often they use their emotional pain to control others or excuse their own inappropriate and destructive behaviors. Some turn to therapy, only to find themselves trapped in their self-pitying victim mode, robbed of optimism, confidence, and growth. Dr. Laura will help you realize that no matter what circumstances you came from or currently live in, you are ultimately responsible for how you react to them. The acceptance of this basic truth is the source of your power to secure the Good Life you long for. In her signature straightforward style, with real-life examples, Dr. Laura shows you what you will gain by not being satisfied with an identity as a victim, or even as a survivor -- but striving to be a victor! In Bad Childhood -- Good Life, Dr. Laura will guide you to accept the truth of the assaults on your psyche and soul, understand your unique coping style and how it impacts your daily thoughts and actions, and help you embrace a life of more peace and happiness. Bad Childhood -- Good Life comes from a compassionate and personal place. Dr. Laura also reveals some of her own experiences with a difficult childhood and what efforts it took to attain a Good Life. She writes, "My resilience has paid off, and I'm doing the best I can with what I've got." Now you can, too.
