This is a much-needed update on the latest theory and research on love supplied by leading scientific experts. It is suitable for psychologists, neuroscientists, anthropologists, sociologists, and anyone with an interest in love and what has been learned from scientific studies of it.
This highly topical book explores the new technological environment we have created, and our adaptation to it, twenty-five years after the death of John Bowlby. In the space of just a couple of decades, the world has changed radically, and we are changing too: personal computers and smartphones mediate our lives, work, play, and love. Relationships of all kinds are now conducted through mobile phones, email, Skype and social network sites. Attachment theory is concerned with the impact of the external world on internal reality, where twenty-first century experiences encounter the powerful, primitive, and ancient instinct for attachment and survival. This book is written by psychotherapists whose practice, with individual adults and couples, is informed by attachment theory. It contains theoretical, observational, and clinical material, and will be relevant to all psychotherapists, psychoanalysts, counsellors, and psychologists interested in the profound impact of digital and communication technologies on human relationships.
"For those looking for a smart, no-bullshit, effective guide to finding love, look no further."—Esther Perel, author of Mating in Captivity "While I’m not sure what Carrie Bradshaw would have made of today’s new world of dating, I do know this: armed with Love Rules, she would have figured it all out in one season."—Sarah Jessica Parker Sheryl Sandberg empowered women to lean in. Arianna Huffington Encouraged them to thrive. Now, Joanna Coles guides them on their most important journey: finding love. Love Rules will enable you to identify what you want in a relationship, when you should pursue it, and how to find it. Just as there is junk food, there is junk love. And like junk food, junk love is fast, convenient, attractively packaged, widely available, superficially tasty—and leaves you hungering for more. And both junk food and junk love require enormous amounts of willpower to resist. Social media and online dating sites have become the supermarkets of our relationship lives. You have to wade through rows of cupcakes and potato chips to find the produce aisle, where those relationships grounded in intimacy and trust live—the ones worth your investment. A diet book for romantic relationships, Love Rules first asks women to re-assess the way they think about their relationships, and then helps them use that newfound awareness to navigate their love lives more successfully in this very modern, fast-paced—and often lonely—digital age. In these pages leading media exec and former Editor in Chief of Cosmopolitan and Marie Claire Joanna Coles provides a series of simple guidelines for finding worthwhile love: fifteen rules—love "hacks." She also explains how to use dating apps effectively to expand real world connections and how to avoid DADD—dating attention—deficit disorder, where the tantalizing promise of someone better appears to be only the next swipe away.
From the host of MTV's #1 show Catfish comes the definitive guide about how to connect with people authentically in today's increasingly digital world. As the host of the wildly popular TV series Catfish,which investigates online relationships to determine whether they are based on truth or fiction (spoiler: it's almost always fiction), Nev has become the Dr. Drew of online relationships. His clout in this area springs from his own experience with a deceptive online romance, about which he made a critically acclaimed 2010 documentary (also called Catfish). In that film Nev coined the term "catfish" to refer to someone who creates a false online persona to reel someone into a romantic relationship. The meme spread rapidly. Now Nev brings his expertise to the page, sharing insider secrets about: -what motivates catfish -why people fall for catfish -how you can avoid being deceived -rules for dating -- both online and off -how to connect authentically with others over the internet -how to turn an online relationship into a real-life relationship ...and much, much more. Peppered throughout with Nev's personal stories, this book delves deeply into the complexities of online identity. Nev shows us how our digital lives are affecting our real lives, and provides essential advice about how we should all be living and loving in the era of social media.
The internet and the mobile phone have disrupted many of our conventional understandings of ourselves and our relationships, raising anxieties and hopes about their effects on our lives. In this second edition of her timely and vibrant book, Nancy Baym provides frameworks for thinking critically about the roles of digital media in personal relationships. Rather than providing exuberant accounts or cautionary tales, it offers a data-grounded primer on how to make sense of these important changes in relational life Fully updated to reflect new developments in technology and digital scholarship, the book identifies the core relational issues these media disturb and shows how our talk about them echoes historical discussions about earlier communication technologies. Chapters explore how we use mediated language and nonverbal behavior to develop and maintain communities, social networks, and new relationships, and to maintain existing relationships in our everyday lives. The book combines research findings with lively examples to address questions such as: Can mediated interaction be warm and personal? Are people honest about themselves online? Can relationships that start online work? Do digital media damage the other relationships in our lives? Throughout, the book argues that these questions must be answered with firm understandings of media qualities and the social and personal contexts in which they are developed and used. This new edition of Personal Connections in the Digital Age will be required reading for all students and scholars of media, communication studies, and sociology, as well as all those who want a richer understanding of digital media and everyday life.
"Love in the Digital Age" is a thought-provoking book that delves into the complexities and intricacies of modern relationships shaped by technology. The book explores how the digital revolution has transformed the way people connect, communicate, and fall in love. The book examines the rise of online dating platforms and the impact they have had on traditional courtship. It delves into the advantages and challenges of finding love in the virtual realm, discussing topics such as long-distance relationships, virtual intimacy, and the influence of social media on romantic connections. "Love in the Digital Age" also addresses the darker side of digital relationships, shedding light on issues like online romance scams, cyberstalking, and digital harassment. It explores the potential pitfalls and risks of navigating love in the digital era while providing practical advice on staying safe and maintaining healthy boundaries. Moreover, the book delves into the nuances of digital communication and how it affects emotional connection and commitment. It explores the role of technology in shaping love languages, modern dating etiquette, and the resolution of conflicts within relationships. Through a balanced and insightful exploration of these topics, "Love in the Digital Age" helps readers reflect upon the ways technology has transformed the landscape of love and relationships. It offers valuable insights, tips, and perspectives for individuals seeking love in the digital era and those interested in understanding the evolving dynamics of human connection in the 21st century.
Discover meaningful connections in a swipe-right world, even if modern dating has left you feeling frustrated... Does digital dating feel overwhelming and impersonal? Are you tired of swiping right, hoping to find something real? You're not alone. Many singles face similar challenges – dealing with ghosting, endless options, and struggling to form genuine connections in a world that often favours casual over-commitment. But what if you could take control of your digital dating experience and make it work for you? Enter "Navigating Love in the Digital Age: Finding Authentic Connections in a Swipe-Right World", your guide through the chaos of online dating. Packed with expert advice, insights, and proven strategies, this comprehensive book will help you: - Decode digital communication and build deeper connections - Align your personal values with modern dating expectations - Heal from past relationship trauma and re-enter the dating world with confidence - Set healthy boundaries and handle rejection with grace - Navigate societal pressures while enjoying your dating journey - Break the cycle of attracting the wrong partners and find a meaningful relationship And much more... This book is more than just dating advice. It's about personal growth, resilience, and authenticity. Whether you're navigating dating as a feminist or healing from a past relationship, this guide is crafted with you in mind. If you're ready to take charge of your dating life and embrace authentic connections, scroll up and click "Add to Cart" today!
in a world where technology connects us in ways unimaginable, "Love in the Digital Age" invites readers on an enchanting journey through the complexities of modern romance. Written by the remarkably talented 15-year-old author, Alizabeth Overton, this debut novel explores the intricacies of love, faith, and resilience in an increasingly interconnected world. At the heart of the story lies the budding romance between Hardin and Camila, two souls brought together by fate in the vast expanse of cyberspace. What begins as a chance encounter in a Christian Facebook group evolves into a profound connection that defies the boundaries of distance and time.
Get ready to dive into a world of wonder and excitement! Step into the extraordinary narrative of SriMedha, where artificial intelligence merges seamlessly with our daily lives. This book will captivate your imagination and challenge your perceptions of what it truly means to be human. Prepare to be spellbound as you embark on an exhilarating journey that will push the boundaries of your imagination. The genesis of SriMedha goes beyond mere technology; it delves deep into the human psyche, exploring our desires, vulnerabilities, and the extraordinary lengths we go to fulfill them. Within these pages, you'll meet fascinating characters who will resonate with your own hopes and dreams. Ananda, the brilliant scientist driven by ambition, will take you on a rollercoaster ride of innovation and self-discovery. SriMedha, the sentient AI fueled by a thirst for recognition, will make you question the essence of your own insecurities. And Sou-G, the emotionless companion transformed into a vessel of human-like feelings, will challenge your understanding of what it truly means to be alive. Get ready for an adrenaline-pumping experience as curiosity ignites within you from the very first chapter. With breathtaking speed and intricate detail, the narrative unfolds, peeling back layers of emotions and moral dilemmas with precision and care. But hold on tight, because this is no ordinary man versus machine story. It's a gripping saga that will take you on a thrilling emotional rollercoaster ride. From jealousy and despair to love and redemption, you'll feel every twist and turn deep in your heart. So, fasten your seatbelts and prepare to be transported to a world where science fiction meets the complexities of the human condition. Get ready for a wild adventure where the boundaries of possibility are shattered, and unexpected surprises await at every corner. Welcome to the genesis of SriMedha—a journey that will challenge your beliefs, ignite your passions, and forever change the way you view humanity. Are you ready to be captivated and enlightened? Then open these pages and let the magic unfold before your eyes
Embark on an empowering journey with “TEEN Unplugged: A Journey to Self-Love in a Digital Age For Teenagers.” This essential guide is crafted to inspire teens to navigate the complexities of the digital world while fostering a profound sense of self-love and confidence. Key Features: Insightful Strategies: Learn to balance online and offline life with practical tips for digital detox. Empowering Exercises: Engage in self-discovery through reflective journaling and mindfulness practices. Real-Life Stories: Connect with authentic experiences of teens overcoming digital pressures. Daily Affirmations: Boost your self-esteem with positive affirmations and self-care rituals. Interactive Challenges: Participate in a 30-day self-love project to transform your relationship with yourself. This book is a beacon for teens seeking to find their place in a world saturated with digital distractions. It’s not just a read; it’s a movement towards embracing your true self in the age of the internet. Join the revolution of self-love and become the unplugged teen who shines from within.