If Past Traumas Didn’t Exist

If Past Traumas Didn’t Exist

Author: Elizabeth King

Publisher: Balboa Press

Published: 2022-06-13

Total Pages: 178

ISBN-13: 1982285788

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“I want the world to have these self-healing tools at hand through angels, archangels, Reiki, the Divinity, and unity. We are here to shake off our own sins and karmic payments to break an entire nation of suffering. Thus, we give the wings back to our children to dream of a living world full of color, joy, kindness, health, and wealth. The more light we spread, the faster we move toward 2032, when the golden age begins, when the human species will evolve from Homo sapiens to Homo luminous. We came out of a karmic cycle of ego and materialism that lasted two hundred years. This was the age of man based on materialism and the gathering of as much wealth as possible, which ended on March 21, 2021, when we entered the age of Aquarius, an era in which the emphasis will be, from an energetic point of view, on the elevation of the spirit and on the inner aspects. The new species will be called Homo luminous. The human collective, throughout history, has suffered, and it has been dramatic. Being allowed to deal with our own feelings, through our own powers as human beings disconnected from the divine and the Divinity in each of us, we have come to believe that it is right to kill in the name of religion and the ideologies based on it. We have come to believe and interpret through our own selfish minds that God wants us divided; that God is the one who punishes; and that he separates people according to color, financial status, or ethnicity. However, all these dirty and selfish ideologies are going to fall apart. Each of us will experience this through our own prism. Each of us will make this leap. Each of us will reconnect with the Divinity in us and realize that any thought, action, or deed on others has an effect on us as well. You will realize that you are a cocreator of your own life, and you will be able to make your own contribution in this regard. The divine will flow through each of us, for we will earn this right. We have earned this right over time. We earned it when people began to search within themselves for the answers. The Father waited for us with infinite patience and light to return home, to find ourselves, and to become one with him again. In one of my meditations, I was shown something that made me realize how interconnected everything on the planet is, and how they all lead to the same Source. The images came quickly, so I was not able to connect with everything I saw in a conscious way. I saw images of a grain of sand, stones, grass, cars, streets, animals, the sky, clouds, water, wind, and more, and then the images shrank as I ascended above Earth. Consciousness continued to show me Earth, the stars, black holes, and constellations, until I felt that no earthling or other being but the Father would be able to comprehend the vast universe shown to me, including beings in heaven”. ----------- "When you bring into the light certain traumas of yours, you free not only yourself from them but also your children. These processes have also an opposite effect, going down the ancestral line until the beginning of the first life. Do you realize now how important it is to overcome you fears? Do you realize now what can happen if you manage to overcome a fear, whether you do it by being present or calling on the help of angels, Reiki, therapy, or other methods? The final destination is important. A part of you is brighter, a part that shines. When you work every day, every week, or whenever you need or feel it is time to release something more, the body and the soul are reunited as a whole in the light piece by piece, until you become just the light"


Trauma and Recovery

Trauma and Recovery

Author: Judith Lewis Herman

Publisher: Basic Books

Published: 2015-07-07

Total Pages: 337

ISBN-13: 0465098738

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In this groundbreaking book, a leading clinical psychiatrist redefines how we think about and treat victims of trauma. A "stunning achievement" that remains a "classic for our generation." (Bessel van der Kolk, M.D., author of The Body Keeps the Score). Trauma and Recovery is revered as the seminal text on understanding trauma survivors. By placing individual experience in a broader political frame, Harvard psychiatrist Judith Herman argues that psychological trauma is inseparable from its social and political context. Drawing on her own research on incest, as well as a vast literature on combat veterans and victims of political terror, she shows surprising parallels between private horrors like child abuse and public horrors like war. Hailed by the New York Times as "one of the most important psychiatry works to be published since Freud," Trauma and Recovery is essential reading for anyone who seeks to understand how we heal and are healed.


What My Bones Know

What My Bones Know

Author: Stephanie Foo

Publisher: Ballantine Books

Published: 2022-02-22

Total Pages: 353

ISBN-13: 0593238117

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A searing memoir of reckoning and healing by acclaimed journalist Stephanie Foo, investigating the little-understood science behind complex PTSD and how it has shaped her life “Achingly exquisite . . . providing real hope for those who long to heal.”—Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR: The Washington Post, Cosmopolitan, NPR, Mashable, She Reads, Publishers Weekly By age thirty, Stephanie Foo was successful on paper: She had her dream job as an award-winning radio producer at This American Life and a loving boyfriend. But behind her office door, she was having panic attacks and sobbing at her desk every morning. After years of questioning what was wrong with herself, she was diagnosed with complex PTSD—a condition that occurs when trauma happens continuously, over the course of years. Both of Foo’s parents abandoned her when she was a teenager, after years of physical and verbal abuse and neglect. She thought she’d moved on, but her new diagnosis illuminated the way her past continued to threaten her health, relationships, and career. She found limited resources to help her, so Foo set out to heal herself, and to map her experiences onto the scarce literature about C-PTSD. In this deeply personal and thoroughly researched account, Foo interviews scientists and psychologists and tries a variety of innovative therapies. She returns to her hometown of San Jose, California, to investigate the effects of immigrant trauma on the community, and she uncovers family secrets in the country of her birth, Malaysia, to learn how trauma can be inherited through generations. Ultimately, she discovers that you don’t move on from trauma—but you can learn to move with it. Powerful, enlightening, and hopeful, What My Bones Know is a brave narrative that reckons with the hold of the past over the present, the mind over the body—and examines one woman’s ability to reclaim agency from her trauma.


When Kids Call the Shots

When Kids Call the Shots

Author: Sean Grover

Publisher: AMACOM

Published: 2015-06-03

Total Pages: 225

ISBN-13: 0814436013

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If you want to fix your rebellious and disrespectful child, you need to start by fixing yourself. Are your kids pummeling you with demands and bossing you around with impunity? Have your once-precious preschoolers become rebellious, entitled, and disrespectful to authority? While there are plenty of so-called experts who might try to validate your convictions that you have done all you can to “fix” your “difficult” children, the hard truth is, they’re not doing you any favors by placing the responsibility solely on your children. Parenting struggles rarely originate from just one side. Instead, they erupt at the volatile intersection of a child's personality with a parent's own insecurities and behaviors. In When Kids Call the Shots, therapist and parenting expert Sean Grover untangles the forces driving family dysfunction, and helps parents assume their leadership roles once again. Parents will discover: Three common bullying styles used by kids Parenting styles that contribute to power balances Critical testing periods in a child’s development Coping mechanisms that backfire Personalized plans for calmly exerting authority in any scenario The solution to any problem begins with learning to control what you can control. In parenting, you’ve already learned how impossible it is to control your kids. Begin by controlling you!


It Didn't Start with You

It Didn't Start with You

Author: Mark Wolynn

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2016-04-26

Total Pages: 258

ISBN-13: 1101980370

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A groundbreaking approach to transforming traumatic legacies passed down in families over generations, by an acclaimed expert in the field Depression. Anxiety. Chronic Pain. Phobias. Obsessive thoughts. The evidence is compelling: the roots of these difficulties may not reside in our immediate life experience or in chemical imbalances in our brains—but in the lives of our parents, grandparents, and even great-grandparents. The latest scientific research, now making headlines, supports what many have long intuited—that traumatic experience can be passed down through generations. It Didn’t Start with You builds on the work of leading experts in post-traumatic stress, including Mount Sinai School of Medicine neuroscientist Rachel Yehuda and psychiatrist Bessel van der Kolk, author of The Body Keeps the Score. Even if the person who suffered the original trauma has died, or the story has been forgotten or silenced, memory and feelings can live on. These emotional legacies are often hidden, encoded in everything from gene expression to everyday language, and they play a far greater role in our emotional and physical health than has ever before been understood. As a pioneer in the field of inherited family trauma, Mark Wolynn has worked with individuals and groups on a therapeutic level for over twenty years. It Didn’t Start with You offers a pragmatic and prescriptive guide to his method, the Core Language Approach. Diagnostic self-inventories provide a way to uncover the fears and anxieties conveyed through everyday words, behaviors, and physical symptoms. Techniques for developing a genogram or extended family tree create a map of experiences going back through the generations. And visualization, active imagination, and direct dialogue create pathways to reconnection, integration, and reclaiming life and health. It Didn’t Start With You is a transformative approach to resolving longstanding difficulties that in many cases, traditional therapy, drugs, or other interventions have not had the capacity to touch.


Trauma and the 12 Steps, Revised and Expanded

Trauma and the 12 Steps, Revised and Expanded

Author: Jamie Marich

Publisher: North Atlantic Books

Published: 2020-07-07

Total Pages: 290

ISBN-13: 1623174694

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An inclusive, research-based guide to working the 12 steps: a trauma-informed approach for clinicians, sponsors, and those in recovery. Step 1: You admit that you're powerless over your addiction. Now what? 12-step programs like Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and Narcotics Anonymous (NA) have helped countless people on the path to recovery. But many still feel that 12-step programs aren't for them: that the spiritual emphasis is too narrow, the modality too old-school, the setting too triggering, or the space too exclusive. Some struggle with an addict label that can eclipse the histories, traumas, and experiences that feed into addiction, or dismisses the effects of adverse experiences like trauma in the first place. Advances in addiction medicine, trauma, neuropsychiatry, social theory, and overall strides in inclusivity need to be integrated into modern-day 12-step programs to reflect the latest research and what it means to live with an addiction today. Dr. Jamie Marich, an addiction and trauma clinician in recovery herself, builds necessary bridges between the 12-step's core foundations and up-to-date developments in trauma-informed care. Foregrounding the intersections of addiction, trauma, identity, and systems of oppression, Marich's approach treats the whole person--not just the addiction--to foster healing, transformation, and growth. Written for clinicians, therapists, sponsors, and those in recovery, Marich provides an extensive toolkit of trauma-informed skills that: Explains how trauma impacts addiction, recovery, and relapse Celebrates communities who may feel excluded from the program, like atheists, agnostics, and LGBTQ+ folks Welcomes outside help from the fields of trauma, dissociation, mindfulness, and addiction research Explains the differences between being trauma-informed and trauma-sensitive; and Discusses spiritual abuse as a legitimate form of trauma that can profoundly impede spirituality-based approaches to healing.


Whole Again

Whole Again

Author: Jackson MacKenzie

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2019-01-08

Total Pages: 306

ISBN-13: 0143133314

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From a leading voice on recovering from toxic relationships, a deeply insightful guide to getting back to your "old self" again--in order to truly heal and move on. Jackson MacKenzie has helped millions of people in their struggle to understand the experience of toxic relationships. His first book, Psychopath Free, explained how to identify and survive the immediate situation. In this highly anticipated new book, he guides readers on what to do next--how to fully heal from abuse in order to find love and acceptance for the self and others. Through his close work with--and deep connection to--thousands of survivors of abusive relationships Jackson discovered that most survivors have symptoms of trauma long after the relationship is over. These range from feelings of numbness and emptiness to depression, perfectionism, substance abuse, and many more. But he’s also found that it is possible to work through these symptoms and find love on the other side, and this book shows how. Through a practice of mindfulness, introspection, and exercises using specific tools, readers learn to identify the protective self they've developed - and uncover the core self, so that they can finally move on to live a full and authentic life--to once again feel light, free, and whole, and ready to love again. This book addresses and provides crucial guidance on topics and conditions like: complex PTSD, Narcissistic abuse, Avoidant Personality Disorder, Codependency, Core wounding, toxic shame, Borderline Personality Disorder, and so many more. Whole Again offers hope and multiple strategies to anyone who has survived a toxic relationship, as well as anyone suffering the effects of a breakup involving lying, cheating and other forms of abuse--to release old wounds and safely let the love back inside where it belongs.


The Compassionate Mind Approach to Recovering from Trauma

The Compassionate Mind Approach to Recovering from Trauma

Author: Deborah Lee

Publisher: Robinson

Published: 2012-07-19

Total Pages: 171

ISBN-13: 1849019452

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Terrible events are very hard to deal with and those who go through a trauma often feel permanently changed by it. Grief, numbness, anger, anxiety and shame are all very common emotional reactions to traumatic incidents such as an accident or death of a loved one, and ongoing traumatic events such as domestic abuse. How we deal with the aftermath of trauma and our own emotional response can determine how quickly we are able to 'move on' and get back to 'normality' once more. An integral part of the recovery process is not only recognising and accepting how our lives may have been changed but also learning to deal with feelings of shame - an extremely common reaction to trauma. 'Recovering from Trauma' uses the groundbreaking Compassion Focused Therapy to help the reader to not only develop a fuller understanding of how we react to trauma, but also to deal with any feelings of shame and start to overcome any trauma-related difficulties.


The Damned Bond (Under a Cursed Moon 5)

The Damned Bond (Under a Cursed Moon 5)

Author: Anya Byrne

Publisher: Siren-BookStrand

Published:

Total Pages: 121

ISBN-13: 1646377788

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Discount ends Tuesday, April 18th! [Siren Classic ManLove: Erotic Romance, Alternative, Paranormal, Werewolves, MM, HEA] Many centuries ago, Alex and Willow were torn apart by forces beyond their control. Now an undead werewolf, Alex endures a damned existence in the hope of one day being reunited with his mate. His dream is unexpectedly fulfilled, but nothing in their lives has ever been easy. Willow has forgotten everything about his past—including Alex. Shattered though it might be, their bond is just as deep as it was in their past life. But Alex is literally a dead man walking, and he can’t help but wonder if his mate would be better off without such a bloodthirsty creature. Worse still, Willow’s vengeful twin, William, is still lurking in the shadows, eager to find his own mate, Caradoc, no matter the cost. Even centuries after their first death, they are all bound by the fate of the two-souled wolf. The damned bond between Alex and Willow may not be enough to challenge the cruelty of the cursed moon. NOTE: This book is not a standalone. It follows The Two-Souled Wolf [Under a Cursed Moon 4] and concludes in The Lost Lovers [Under a Cursed Moon 6].


Promoting Positive Processes after Trauma

Promoting Positive Processes after Trauma

Author: Elizabeth M. Altmaier

Publisher: Academic Press

Published: 2019-02-12

Total Pages: 133

ISBN-13: 0128119764

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Promoting Positive Processes After Trauma targets one of the most damaging effects of trauma, ongoing impairment across the whole of "living." Viewing clients with trauma histories from the perspectives of their shared experiences is the foundation for the application of six strengths and virtues studied by positive psychology: hope, positive emotions, resilience, forgiveness, spirituality and religiosity, and meaning-making. The lived trauma experience of the contributing author illustrates actual means of change - Presents foundational information and newest findings from trauma and from positive psychology - Covers strengths and virtues that can be directly targeted in treatment or used as ancillary treatment goals - Provides further readings suitable for clients and for clinicians - Concludes with an integrative exploration of the organization of positive processes and their integration into portfolios.