Becoming Us
Becoming Us

Author: Beth McCord

Publisher: Morgan James Publishing

Published: 2019-07-02

Total Pages: 189

ISBN-13: 1642794171

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How Christian couples can understand their personality types—and build a more powerful bond of love. He doesn't listen to me . . . I don't understand her . . . Why do we keep having the same fight? If you’ve ever felt baffled by the person you married, join Enneagram Coach Beth McCord and her husband, Pastor Jeff McCord, as they pull back the curtain to reveal why you and your spouse behave in different ways. Applying the Enneagram through the lens of the gospel, they provide practical steps, insights, and tools to better understand yourself and each other. This book will help you: Answer the question, “Why do they do that?” Stop committing “assumicide” about each other’s motives and dramatically improve your communication Relate to your spouse in ways they actually understand Awaken a tired marriage that feels like it’s on cruise control Defuse conflict before it starts, especially the same old “dance” Enjoy your spouse again, even if you’ve loved each other for years! Whether you’re preparing for marriage or celebrating a fiftieth anniversary, Becoming Us will revolutionize the way you understand yourself and your spouse, and transform your marriage into the powerful, loving, and satisfying relationship that God intended. “An insightful resource for those who want to understand themselves, their spouse, and their marriage through the lens of faith and the tool of the Enneagram.” —Ian Morgan Cron, Enneagram expert and author of The Road Back to You

The Enneagram in Love
The Enneagram in Love

Author: Stephanie Barron Hall

Publisher: Sourcebooks, Inc.

Published: 2020-06-09

Total Pages: 198

ISBN-13: 1646119428

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Discover deeper bonds and more intimate connections with the power of the Enneagram The Enneagram is a popular tool for self-discovery, but it can also help enhance romantic relationships. With The Enneagram in Love as your guide, you will learn how to use insights from this motivation-based personality system to improve loving partnerships and create a more fulfilling connection with your significant other. This comprehensive exploration of the Enneagram offers an in-depth examination of the ways each of the nine types behaves in relationships: how they handle intimacy, express themselves, and deal with conflict. Discover the opportunities and challenges that you and your partner will face while also getting realistic, actionable advice for navigating and overcoming tough spots you might encounter. The Enneagram in Love includes: Romance and the Enneagram—Get a guide focused on improving your love life through the reasoned approach of the Enneagram. Love for everyone—Examine the interplay between the nine types with chapters devoted to the strengths and weaknesses of all 45 possible couplings. A road map for success—Explore potential problem spots in your relationship and what you can do to address them. Love like you've never loved before—with a little help from the Enneagram.

The Enneagram for Relationships
The Enneagram for Relationships

Author: Ashton Whitmoyer-Ober MA

Publisher: Sourcebooks, Inc.

Published: 2020-03-31

Total Pages: 231

ISBN-13: 164611079X

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Cultivate deeper relationships—a guide to the power of the Enneagram. We all relate to the people around us in different ways and understanding those differences is the key to maintaining healthy relationships. The Enneagram for Relationships takes the straightforward wisdom of the Enneagram and helps you understand it so that you can improve the quality of your human connections. Breaking people down into nine distinct types, the Enneagram is more than a personality test—it is a tool for understanding who you are and, more importantly, why you are who you are. Diving deep into each of the types, this easy-to-understand book provides complete breakdowns of what each one brings to various relationships, how they interact with other people, and what they can do to form healthy and fulfilling partnerships. The Enneagram for Relationships includes: Learn about your type—From the Reformer (Type 1) to the Peacemaker (Type 9), get a detailed explanation of each personality, what they are like, and how they function within relationships. From personal to professional—Go beyond romance as you learn how you can use the Enneagram to improve friendships, familial bonds, and work partnerships. Be your best self—Discover plenty of practical advice for addressing your own faults and foibles and living up to your potential—even as you learn how to navigate the other personality types at home and in the wild. You can get along better with other people—let the Enneagram show you how.

The 80/80 Marriage
The 80/80 Marriage

Author: Nate Klemp PhD

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2021-02-09

Total Pages: 240

ISBN-13: 1984880780

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NAMED ONE OF COSMOPOLITAN'S "15 BEST MARRIAGE BOOKS ALL COUPLES SHOULD READ." An accessible, transformative guide for couples seeking greater love, connection, and intimacy in our modern world Nate and Kaley Klemp were both successful in their careers, consulting for high-powered companies around the world. Their work as mindfulness and leadership experts, however, often fell to the wayside when they came home in the evening, only to end up fighting about fairness in their marriage. They believed in a model where each partner contributed equally and fairness ruled, but, in reality, they were finding that balance near impossible to achieve. From this frustration, they developed the idea of the 80/80 marriage, a new model for balancing career, family, and love. The 80/80 Marriage pushes couples beyond the limited idea of "fairness" toward a new model grounded on radical generosity and shared success, one that calls for each partner to contribute 80 percent to build the strongest possible relationship. Drawing from more than one hundred interviews with couples from all walks of life, stories from business and pop culture, scientific studies, and ancient philosophical insights, husband-and-wife team Nate and Kaley Klemp pinpoint exactly what's not working in modern marriage. Their 80/80 model of marriage provides practical, powerful solutions to transform your relationship and open up space for greater love and connection.

The Enneagram Relationship Workbook
The Enneagram Relationship Workbook

Author: Margaret Frings Keyes

Publisher: Chandler Sharp Publishers

Published: 1991

Total Pages: 162

ISBN-13: 9781882042081

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Jungian therapist Keyes provides an easy introduction to the Enneagram, a personality classification system. She focuses on partnership issues with a fresh and original approach, offering a checklist that will help readers identify their personality types and character traits. Cartoon drawings throughout. (Molysdatur Publications)

The Essential Enneagram
The Essential Enneagram

Author: David Daniels

Publisher: Harper Collins

Published: 2009-11-24

Total Pages: 132

ISBN-13: 0061985694

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The First and Only Scientifically Determined Enneagram Personality Test and Guide A centuries-old psychological system with roots in sacred tradition, the Enneagram can be an invaluable guide in your journey toward self-understanding and self-development. In this book, Stanford University Medical School clinical professor of psychiatry David Daniels and counseling psychologist Virginia Price offer the only scientifically developed Enneagram test based upon extensive research combined with a self-discovery and personal-development guide. The most fundamental guide to the Enneagram ever offered, this book features effective self-tests to determine simply and accurately what your personality type is. Daniels and Price provide step-by-step instructions for taking inventory of how you think, what you feel, and what you experience. They then guide you in your discovery of what your type means for your personal well-being and your relationships with others, and they show you how to maximize your inherent strengths. Brimming with empowering information for each of the nine personality types—Perfectionist, Giver, Performer, Romantic, Observer, Loyal Skeptic, Epicure, Protector, and Mediator—this one-of-a-kind book equips you with all the tools you need to dramatically enhance your quality of life.

Sex and the Enneagram
Sex and the Enneagram

Author: Ann Gadd

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2019-08-27

Total Pages: 384

ISBN-13: 162055884X

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Understanding your approach to dating, relationships, and sex through the lens of your Enneagram personality type • Explains the relationship and sexual differences in the 9 Enneagram personality types for both genders • Examines how we can create greater intimacy with our partners and what blocks our sexual enjoyment • Looks at each type’s fantasies and investigates how our behavior in relationships alters according to how emotionally integrated or disintegrated we are • Explores the three types of love and their countertypes; each type’s Enneagram Passions and Virtues in relation to intimacy; how to engage with each type; and whether some types make better lovers Sex can take us from the sacred sublime to the darkest aspects of humanity. It can carry us on the wings of pure pleasure, or crush and potentially destroy us. No act in the human experience, barring the essential survival needs of food and water, can have more of an effect on us. In Sex and the Enneagram, Ann Gadd explores relationships and sex through the lens of the Enneagram, its nine personality types, and the subtypes of the wings and Instinctual Triads. The author introduces the Enneagram system and provides a full chapter devoted to each type. She examines each type’s approach to sex, their fantasies, and levels of integration in relation to love and sex, as well as each type’s approach to issues such as pornography, sexual problems, and dating sites and whether some types make better lovers. The author explains the Enneagram Passions and Virtues of each type in relation to sex, divorce, wing influences, and gender and explains how the 27 Sub or Instinctual types and the Hornevian Triads of the Enneagram system affect our sexuality. Most importantly, Gadd looks at how we can heal ourselves sexually so we can create more fulfilling, transforming intimacy for ourselves and our partners. Through understanding ourselves and our partners sexually, with the help of the Enneagram, Gadd hopes to bring us to deeper levels of compassion and understanding for each other. Sex then can be an expression enhancing our love for each other, rather than simply a physical act. By understanding your own and your lover’s Enneagram type, intimate giving and receiving can be an empowering process to embody our love for ourselves and others.

The Nine Keys
The Nine Keys

Author: Lynn Roulo

Publisher:

Published: 2018-10-16

Total Pages: 498

ISBN-13: 9780997183177

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The Nine Keys: A Guide Book To Unlock Your Relationships Using Kundalini Yoga and the Enneagram weaves together two ancient technologies in a modern application to improve your relationships. The Enneagram is a tool for compassion that explains why people behave the way they do. The Nine Keys outlines nine distinct habits of attention and illustrates how these different habits influence your interpretation of events. And it highlights how misunderstandings occur and how these differences can be bridged.Kundalini Yoga, the yoga of self-awareness, offers practical tools to address our somatic experience in the world. This simple, powerful form of yoga emphasizes breathwork and strengthening the nervous system, addressing the changes that need to occur to keep your body in a relaxed, expansive state, thereby lowering stress and anxiety.

Take Care of Your Type
Take Care of Your Type

Author: Christina S. Wilcox

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Published: 2020-12-15

Total Pages: 208

ISBN-13: 1982157968

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Discover the self-care tips specifically designed for your Enneagram type with this simple yet illuminating guide from popular Enneagram expert Christina S. Wilcox. Many of us have used the Enneagram of Personality to understand ourselves on a profoundly intimate level. But despite what our Enneagram type reveals, it’s not always easy to know the best ways to take care of ourselves according to our unique personalities. In Take Care of Your Type, Enneagram expert and social media sensation Christina S. Wilcox uses her knowledge of the Enneagram to illuminate how each of the nine Enneagram types can practice better self-care. Answering questions ranging from “What is the best morning routine for my type?” to “What boundaries are important to set based on my individual personality traits?” this handy guide filled with beautiful color illustrations will help you recenter and reconnect with yourself amid the stress of daily life and will leave you feeling happier and healthier in mind, body, and spirit.