A Common Sense, Practical Guide to Divorce Workbook
A Common Sense, Practical Guide to Divorce Workbook

Author: Lenard Marlow

Publisher: Xlibris Corporation

Published: 2022-07-21

Total Pages: 116

ISBN-13: 1669823253

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The simple message of this book is that divorcing husbands and wives should not allow divorce lawyers to send them off on a fool’s errand that will take what is already a tragedy in their lives and turn it into a nightmare. That is when they are persuaded to employ the law as a weapon in a legal tug of war the object of which is simply to get as much as you can and to give as little as you have to. Rather, they should look to the law as a common framework that they can turn to in their effort to conclude an agreement and thereby get on with their lives. There is a name for this. It is called divorce mediation and it doesn’t take forever or cost a king’s ransom.

A Common Sense, Practical Guide to Divorce in New York
A Common Sense, Practical Guide to Divorce in New York

Author: Lenard Marlow

Publisher: Xlibris Corporation

Published: 2021-01-05

Total Pages: 253

ISBN-13: 1664146849

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The simple message of this book is that divorcing husbands and wives should not allow divorce lawyers to send them off on a fool’s errand that will take what is already a tragedy in their lives and turn it into a nightmare. That is when they are persuaded to employ the law as a weapon in a legal tug of war the object of which is simply to get as much as you can and to give as little as you have to. Rather, they should look to the law as a common framework that they can turn to in their effort to conclude an agreement and thereby get on with their lives. There is a name for this. It is called divorce mediation and it doesn’t take forever or cost a king’s ransom.

A Common Sense Practical Guide to Divorce
A Common Sense Practical Guide to Divorce

Author: Lenard Marlow

Publisher: Xlibris Corporation

Published: 2022-01-06

Total Pages: 136

ISBN-13: 1669805662

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The simple message of this book is that divorcing husbands and wives should not allow divorce lawyers to send them off on a fool’s errand that will take what is already a tragedy in their lives and turn it into a nightmare. That is when they are persuaded to employ the law as a weapon in a legal tug of war the object of which is simply to get as much as you can and to give as little as you have to. Rather, they should look to the law as a common framework that they can turn to in their effort to conclude an agreement and thereby get on with their lives. There is a name for this. It is called divorce mediation and it doesn’t take forever or cost a king’s ransom.

The Book About Marriage
The Book About Marriage

Author: Lenard Marlow

Publisher: Xlibris Corporation

Published: 2021-02-28

Total Pages: 177

ISBN-13: 1664160094

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The simple message of this book is that divorcing husbands and wives should not allow divorce lawyers to send them off on a fool’s errand that will take what is already a tragedy in their lives and turn it into a nightmare. That is when they are persuaded to employ the law as a weapon in a legal tug of war the object of which is simply to get as much as you can and to give as little as you have to. Rather, they should look to the law as a common framework that they can turn to in their effort to conclude an agreement and thereby get on with their lives. There is a name for this. It is called divorce mediation and it doesn’t take forever or cost a king’s ransom.

Man's Guide to a Civilized Divorce
Man's Guide to a Civilized Divorce

Author: Sam Margulies

Publisher: Rodale Books

Published: 2004-07-16

Total Pages: 352

ISBN-13: 9781579547998

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How to Divorce with Grace, a Little Class, and a Lot of Common Sense Sam Margulies, one of the most experienced mediators in the country, shares his experience to help men make this unpleasant process as quick and amicable as possible. His suggestions on how to manage this turbulent period will significantly minimize the effects of divorce on the separating couple, and on any children in the relationship. Taking into consideration custody issues, and giving specific financial and legal advice, men will find information about how to choose a lawyer, how to deal with a pre-nup, and when and when not to go to trial. Margulies explores all the elements that make for a good, fair divorce, as well as the importance of timing and the decision to get counseling. He also explains how to avoid a legal mess, the long term implications of alimony and child support, dividing up property, and how to negotiate the final agreement. In A Man's Guide to a Civilized Divorce, Margulies helps men avoid the treacherous waters of divorce and illustrates how with the right advice, one can actually come through the process in pretty good shape.

Divorce
Divorce

Author: Lenard Marlow

Publisher: Xlibris Corporation

Published: 2021-12-06

Total Pages: 155

ISBN-13: 1669801349

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There are two ways that divorcing husbands and wives can employ the law. The first, which is employed by divorce lawyers, is to use law as a weapon in a legal tug of war the object of which is simply to get as much as you can and to give as little as you have to. The other, employed by divorce mediators, is to use the law as a common framework that husbands and wives can look to in their effort to conclude an agreement. To be sure, a divorce lawyer will not characterize the undertaking in those terms. Rather, he will say that its purpose is to secure their legal rights and conclude an agreement that is fair and equitable. Unfortunately, its effect will be to give them false levels of expectation that will then be followed by equivalent levels of disappointment. The purpose of this book is twofold. First, to help divorcing husbands and wives better understand this so that they do not allow divorce lawyers to send them off on a fool’s errand going nowhere. Second, to enable them to see and accept what a divorce lawyer’s window dressing is designed to hide, namely, that it is not possible to find perfect solutions to imperfect problems. Contrary to what divorce lawyers would have them believe, their divorce does not take place in a different world than their marriage. It takes place in the same world, and that world is one of inevitable constraint and human limitation.

Making Divorce Work
Making Divorce Work

Author: Diana Mercer

Publisher: Penguin

Published: 2010-12-07

Total Pages: 231

ISBN-13: 1101445718

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Eight essential keys to resolving conflict and rebuilding your life. This unique and empowering guide gives divorcing couples the skills to manage their divorce successfully, handle the legal and emotional issues harmoniously, and redefine and preserve the positive elements of their relationship. Informed by eight mediation concepts developed and used by the authors in their practice, the process outlined in this book will allow divorcing couples to deal rationally with the issues rather than allowing fear, anger, and grief to dictate their actions. Making Divorce Work leads couples to experience divorce as a celebration of the end of a relationship that served them well and provides the tools to deal with virtually every aspect of divorce-from money and custody to grieving and pain-to be proud of the way they handled their divorce and to start their new lives from a better place. Watch a Video

Getting Divorced Without Ruining Your Life
Getting Divorced Without Ruining Your Life

Author: Sam Margulies

Publisher: Touchstone

Published: 1992

Total Pages: 0

ISBN-13: 9780671728267

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For the hundreds of thousands of couples who divorce each year, here is a reasoned, practical guide to the legal, emotional, and financial ins and outs of negotiating a divorce settlement. Margulies provides expert advice on negotiating with one's spouse despite emotional pitfalls, and determining child support and alimony.

Navigating Emotional Currents in Collaborative Divorce
Navigating Emotional Currents in Collaborative Divorce

Author: Kate Scharff

Publisher: American Bar Association

Published: 2010

Total Pages: 228

ISBN-13:

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Helping all professionals - lawyers, mental health professionals, financial neutrals, etc. - who practice in the area of Collaborative Divorce, this book explains how marital dynamics (both conscious and unconscious), combined with the traumas of the divorce as well as those from previous situations, will be re-enacted within the Collaborative process. This enlightening book integrates elements of effective psychotherapy into the Collaborative process, although its lessons can be as easily applied to divorce cases handled through litigation and mediation.